Seeing dew drop on the leaf in the morning refreshes one's mind. The smallest thing in our life could be beautiful thing that shines, as long as we learn to see the beauty within. You are not little because you dream is little in other's eyes, you are little when you think your dream is too little to shine in this world. :)
I commit myself to stay positive and grateful every single days of my life. Looking for the bright side in all sorts of situations that me and my loved ones are in. Share your sunshine with the world! :)
March 31, 2014
March 30, 2014
Red Light
Sometimes in life when red light halts you from going forward, take this opportunity to think about the path you going to take when the red light turns green. If you are waiting at red light now, embrace this period of time to rediscover yourself and to learn new things to equip yourself with so that when the light turns green, you continue your journey with more self-esteem and positivity. Don't ever feel defeated when you hit red light in life, it's just a pit-stop life is giving you to rest before continuing your journey. :)
March 29, 2014
背后心酸。。。你读懂了吗?
家家有本难念的经,每家关起门来都有不可向外透露的丑事。既然是如此,我们又何必去羡慕或妒忌别人所拥有的一切呢? 他人所拥有的,又有几个人读懂拥有这一切背后的付出与心酸? 很多时候,都是'你看我好,我看你好' 因为人往往都会把不好的掩盖起来,只让外人看到那表面的一面。把时间与精力用在羡慕或妒忌他人所拥有的,倒不如集中时间与精力去努力奋斗去取得自己想要拥有的? :)
March 28, 2014
H.A.T.E
Never let hate leads you because it's the way to destruction. When you hold anger, frustration and jealousy towards somebody, it will definitely affects the way you judge the person and speak to the person. Don't let jealousy turns you into a bitch who stab people from the back! :)
March 27, 2014
努力
吴宗宪曾经说过,"还在努力的事情就不叫失败,而我永远没有放弃努力,所以永远不会失败。" 的确,我们往往在人生旅途中,遇上些挫折难免会让我们灰心而放弃。我们之所以会觉得我们在某些事上很失败,不是因为在攀爬人生阶梯时夸不上下一个阶,而是我们放弃了继续攀爬的念头。只要愿意努力往前走,我们是会到达终点的。加油! :)
March 26, 2014
Being Judgemental
When judging a person, never ever jump into conclusion based on our own standards. Our mentality and principle do not necessarily equate to the mentality and principle of others, so don't conclude our judgement on someone when the principles of both parties don't agree with each other on the same issue. Once we have concluded our judgement on a person, it comes bias and thus closing our hearts from a potential friend. Try to understand and to think in other's shoes before judging them, and there might be some surprises behind. :)
March 25, 2014
Dream
Never underestimate the power of dreaming. Dream is the goal we set to reach in our life and without goal we will be wondering aimlessly in our life. Realising our dream could be a journey far more longer and tougher than our expectation. But we could choose to stop right where we are or continue to move forward until we reached our destination. The choice is ours, so instead of giving up halfway, why don't we see how far we have come to realise our dream? Make your dream comes true because it is your dream and you are its fairy Godmother. :)
March 24, 2014
迷失
活在这城市灯红酒绿的繁嚣中,偶尔迷失了方向也在所不免。当我们朝着目标的方向前进,一路上难免会出现很多诱惑与阻碍成为我们前进的阻力。只要目标清晰,没什么会变成我们前进的阻碍。最重要不要在我们迷失方向时,连那股最初对人生目标奋斗的热诚都给丢了。:)
March 23, 2014
尊敬
待人要有同理心。不管大家是什么身份,谁都没必要为了他人的高傲而变得卑微。这地球是圆的,凡事都没绝对。如果今天我们站在人生高峰奚落他人,谁能保证明天我们不会滑落人生谷底被他人奚落? 不管身份在这社会上是多卑微,都拥有自尊,千万别去践踏一个人的自尊。互相尊敬才是皇道。 :)
March 22, 2014
烟花
烟花,短暂却灿烂。我们短短几十年活在这世界上,最重要活得有意义。最起码当我们回首时,一路的跌跌撞撞编写了我们精彩而丰富的人生经历,没白活了。巾帼枭雄里柴九的经典名句: "人生有几个十年?" 在我们这数十年的人生,应该为了梦想而拼,就算结果并不如预期理想,至少我们尝试了。难道,就因为那怕失败怕尝试的心态,让你甘心白活了一生? 人生,不是一帆风顺或者一定要经历大风大浪才不算白活,最重要是为自己而活。 :)
March 21, 2014
Climb
When someone is trying to pull you down, it just shows that you are above them. Don't let any of their negativity or criticism to keep you from climbing. Real friends give their best to bring you up whilst fake friends would use you as their stepping stones. Keep those who always try to bring you up when your life hits rock bottom. Don't be anti-social when your life hits the valley, embrace this period instead because it is when you get to see who your real friends are. :)
March 20, 2014
唯一
很感激小学老师常鼓励我们, "小时了了,大未必佳". 的确,起步稍微逊色了些,并不代表我们是失败者。只要我们永不放弃,坚持信念,终有一天我们会到达成功那一站。相信自己,不要做第一,要做唯一! 我们应该为了自己的理想而奋斗,而不是为了跟他人争第一而斗。加油! :)
March 19, 2014
New Day
If you are having a bad day, just remember that it's new day when you wake up tomorrow, fresh like the morning dew! A bad day never equates to a bad life. It's never too late to change the way you live as long as you have decided to start doing it, because every day is a new journey to begin with! :)
March 18, 2014
Boundary
Never try to push someone's boundary. You would never know how far you are going to go before reaching one's boundary and that will be too late to repair any damages done to any form of relationships. There's a fine line between challenging one's boundary that leads to destruction and compromising one's weaknesses to salvage the relationship. Never take the tolerance, compromise and willingess to accept the weaknesses of each other for granted. Once the limit is challenged, that could just spell the end of the relationship. Are you the boundary pusher or the one whose boundary is being pushed? :)
March 17, 2014
Raindrops
When it's pouring in our life, we should learn to dance in the rain instead of desperately waiting it to stop. Rain, can also be beautiful. It's all up to us to embrace the raindrops that wash our eyes so that we can see clearer or to see them as teardrops that blurred our vision to see the path of our future. :)
March 16, 2014
March 15, 2014
Temporary
Nothing is permanent in this world. No matter the situation is good or bad, it will come to an end. If you are now experiencing tough situation, remind yourself this is temporary and soon you will see the light. If you are now enjoying the good moments in life, don't forget to appreciate and be thankful of what you have because you will never know when they going to leave you. Darkness will not fall on the same spot 24/7 because the Earth rotates and every place on Earth experience both daylight and night. Since everything is ever-changing in life, don't take things for granted no matter what you are going through in your life now. :)
March 14, 2014
留余地
今天无意中看到我中学华文老师在脸书上分享了一个人生哲学:“人生,要适度的留白,为他人留余地,为自己留空间”。 的确,凡事都别去到没得转弯的地步。所谓 “丞相肚里可撑船”, 只要懂得把肚量放阔些,我们就可以多些去包容与体谅别人,放生对方也等于为自己留生路。当眼里只看到我们不爱看到的那些弱点,我们自然会去放大对他人的反感,不知不觉中我们的心胸和视野也变得狭窄。不放下对他人的怨恨,我们又如何释放心中那根刺而获得重生呢?:)
March 13, 2014
Sunrise or Sunset?
At the very first moment this picture strikes you, do you see it as a sunrise or sunset picture? Some said this looks like sunset to them, some said otherwise. Everything has two sides, it's all up to us to choose which side we want to see, the good or the bad sides. Always choose to see the goods in everything although the situation can be the worst you've seen so far in your life. Learn to stay grateful and thankful of everything, no matter big or little, you will find life beautiful. Sunrise or sunset, the choice is all yours! :)
March 12, 2014
游乐园
每个人的心中都拥有一个游乐园,但是这游乐园的命运大多数都逃不过岁月的洗礼,慢慢地越变越渺小。小孩的心里都被这游乐园完完全全的占据了,所以他们都是欢乐的笑,发自内心的笑。当我们逐渐地长大,这游乐园在我们心中的领土也逐渐地被烦恼与现实占领了,我们的笑也失去了童真。其实,我们是不是应该捍卫我们心中的游乐园,别让游乐园成为烦恼与现实的俘虏呢? 只要懂得惜福,我们自然会快乐起来。你,最后一次发自内心的笑是何时?
March 11, 2014
失去、遗憾、珍惜
有句话讲得真好: "有三位朋友,一位叫失去、一位叫遗憾、一位叫珍惜。它们总不会一起出现,而是一位走了另一位才接着来"。人生不过如此。当我们失去了某些人或机会,我们才遗憾为何当初这人或机会就摆在我们眼前我们都不懂得去珍惜。没人能保证把握了眼前的机会就会有庞大的收获,但一定不会原地踏步。在这步伐快得偶尔让人喘不过气的社会,我们又失去了多少个我们该珍惜的人与机会,而又有多少人带着遗憾咽下最后一口气呢? 学习珍惜所拥有的一切,人生其实不是我们想像中那么差。 :)
March 10, 2014
March 09, 2014
Live Life
Life is always filled with uncertainties. You will never know what's going to happen even the very next minute. Our life is just like a cup filled with water. The water can be calm and still at this moment, but we can never guarantee at the very next moment the cup will be shaken and thus making the water turbulent that may drown us. Live every single moment of your life to the fullest, make it a life worth living for! :)
March 08, 2014
色彩人生
如果每种气球颜色各代表着我们的喜怒哀乐,那么你会想只拥有代表着快乐颜色的气球吗? 当你聚集了各种不同颜色的气球后,放手它们飘上高空的那一刻,很美。这就像我们的人生,聚集了酸甜苦辣后才会显得我们人生的独特与精彩。 :)如果每种气球颜色各代表着我们的喜怒哀乐,那么你会想只拥有代表着快乐颜色的气球吗? 当你聚集了各种不同颜色的气球后,放手它们飘上高空的那一刻,很美。这就像我们的人生,聚集了酸甜苦辣后才会显得我们人生的独特与精彩。 :)
March 07, 2014
人生路
黄子华在栋笃笑里曾经说过:“没有后路,就是最好的出路”。的确,人们对于那扇已关上的门的执著使我们忘了当一扇门被关上,其实另一扇门已为我们而开。如果我们只懂得凝望着那扇已关上的门,我们永远不会看到为我们开着的那扇门背后的风景,那么我们只有原地踏步。相反,只要我们肯踏出第一步走向那扇为我们而开的门,一定可以走出一道出路。我们的人生路,本该由我们自己走出来!加油!:)
March 06, 2014
重来
人生有多少事可以重来?我们又会不会愿意去等待这重来的机会?而这机会又值不值得我们去等待?与其带着遗憾漫无止境地等待重来的机会,倒不如承受把握机会后的后悔?后悔总比遗憾好。最起码当机会出现在我们眼前,我们选择了把握当下,免得错失机会后埋怨为何不好好把握当初。把握了机会,就算成果不如预期中的好,也不表示我们错了、失败了。其实那意味着我们拥有尝试的勇气,给予自己机会去证明自己。正如吴宗宪所说:“机会是留给准备好的人”。我们不知机会何时会出现在眼前,只有无时无刻地为那一次的机会而准备自己。如果你错失眼前的机会,你根本不晓得它会不会重来,而你的等待又需经历多少个季节的转变?又或者它永远不会在你眼前出现第二次了?与其让遗憾伴你度过人生,倒不如放手一搏去紧握眼前的机会。尝试了,就算失败,也只是为你的人生添加了无价的经验。你,到底错过了多少你心中还默默等待重来的人与事呢?:)
March 05, 2014
停一停
不管生活再忙碌,都别忘了缓下脚步,用心去体会身旁的风景。忙碌的生活让我们喘不过气,压迫得我们只懂得低着头匆匆的走过,使我们略过在身旁那些渺小的东西。停一停,抬头看看周围的风景,你会发现世界是如此的大,而我们执著的问题只是那么的渺小。当生活让你绝望,请看看那些在草丛中正在努力破土而出的幼苗。只要坚持信念,不要轻易放弃,生活是充满色彩与希望的。:)
March 04, 2014
Try
Just keep walking forward because you never know where this path is going to lead you to. Yes, it can be intimidating when you cannot see what is waiting ahead for you. But you will never find out if you decide to stop moving forward. Don't be afraid of making mistakes along your journey because failures simply mean that you are trying. When you decided to give up trying, don't expect something great to be accomplished. As quoted from Tony Robins, "No matter how many mistakes you make or how slow you progress. You're still way ahead of everyone who isn't trying." There is nothing to be ashamed of even when you are just taking the smallest step possible simply because you have the courage to continue instead of quitting. Never give up trying and you will be one step closer to your goal by the end of today. :)
March 03, 2014
Smile
Smile always, you will never know who needs a smile to brighten up their day. This beautiful universal language is just like a very powerful virus that spreads like crazy among a crowd when we started smiling to people around us. Remember to wear your smile everyday because it is the most beautiful accessory anyone could ask for. Smile can light up the world, so don't forget to smile when you think that your world is dark. Spread your sunshine because it will make a difference. :)
March 02, 2014
New Day
Every morning before your day starts, close your eyes and take a deep breath, and let your inner voice of courage whispers to you: "Today is a new beginning." Yes, everyday is a brand new day so no matter how bad was your yesterday, don't carry forward the negativity from yesterday. Have faith that everything happened for a reason, thus whatever happened to you yesterday is preparing you for today and a step closer to shaping a better tomorrow of yours. Don't get defeated by yesterday's failures because today is like a reset button, you just start again. :)
March 01, 2014
Light or Darkness?
What is the first thing that caught your eyes when you see this picture? The light of the candle, or the darkness behind it? There's two sides of everything, good or bad. All you have to do is learn to see the good in every situation because it is YOUR ATTITUDE that is going to determine whether you are having a good day or a bad day. Instead of adding up your troubles, why don't you try counting your blessings? When you stay too focused on that big patch of darkness, it's going to bring you down because negativity magnifies the sorrows that leads you think that a bad day equates to a bad life. Similarly, when you focused on the small patch of light, it's going to build you up because positivity brings you hope in all sort of situations. Quoting my all-time favourite quote by Martin Luther King Jr., "Darkness cannot drive out darkness, only light can do that. Hate cannot drive out hate, only love can do that." You can only walk out from darkness when you see lights; you can only love your life when you stop hating it. Don't continue to dwell in your sorrows, get up and hold your head up high where you see lights! Everyday is a good day once you change the way you see things. Have a good weekend! :)
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